Types of Abuse
VERBAL OR EMOTIONAL ABUSE
- Calling the victim derogatory names in private or in public.
- Undermining the victim’s sense of self-worth by constantly criticizing or belittling them or their abilities.
- Changing behavior frequently to keep the victim off-balance.
- Trying to convince the victim that they’re crazy.
- Monitoring or restricting the victim’s activities.
- Trying to damage the victim’s relationships with children, family or friends.
- Threatening to physically harm or kill themselves, the victim, children, or pets.
- Making threats to prevent the victim from getting help or leaving the relationship.
PHYSICAL ABUSE
- Pushing, shoving, shaking, biting, scratching, punching, kicking, choking or strangling, pulling hair, restraining, throwing things, breaking things, or destroying the victim’s property.
- Depriving the victim of sleep.
- Scaring the victim by driving dangerously.
- Threatening or assaulting the victim with weapons.
- Not allowing the victim to seek medical attention when sick, injured or pregnant.
SEXUAL ABUSE
- Coercing or forcing the victim into having sexual contact without consent.
- Demanding sexual contact when the victim is sick, tired or after an assault.
- Insulting the victim in sexual ways; using derogatory sexual names.
- Refusing to let the victim use birth control.
ECONOMIC ABUSE
- Preventing the victim from getting an education, getting or keeping a job, or from having transportation.
- Taking the victim’s money.
- Not allowing the victim to have information about family assets or have access to family income.
- Making their partner beg for items such as food, personal hygiene items or other basic necessities.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE & CHILDREN
- Preventing the victim from getting an education, getting or keeping a job, or from having transportation.
- Taking the victim’s money.
- Not allowing the victim to have information about family assets or have access to family income.
- Making their partner beg for items such as food, personal hygiene items or other basic necessities.