Types of Abuse

VERBAL OR EMOTIONAL ABUSE

  • Calling the victim derogatory names in private or in public. 
  • Undermining the victim’s sense of self-worth by constantly criticizing or belittling them or their abilities. 
  • Changing behavior frequently to keep the victim off-balance. 
  • Trying to convince the victim that they’re crazy. 
  • Monitoring or restricting the victim’s activities. 
  • Trying to damage the victim’s relationships with children, family or friends. 
  • Threatening to physically harm or kill themselves, the victim, children, or pets. 
  • Making threats to prevent the victim from getting help or leaving the relationship. 

PHYSICAL ABUSE

  • Pushing, shoving, shaking, biting, scratching, punching, kicking, choking or strangling, pulling hair, restraining, throwing things, breaking things, or destroying the victim’s property. 
  • Depriving the victim of sleep. 
  • Scaring the victim by driving dangerously. 
  • Threatening or assaulting the victim with weapons. 
  • Not allowing the victim to seek medical attention when sick, injured or pregnant. 

SEXUAL ABUSE

  • Coercing or forcing the victim into having sexual contact without consent. 
  • Demanding sexual contact when the victim is sick, tired or after an assault. 
  • Insulting the victim in sexual ways; using derogatory sexual names. 
  • Refusing to let the victim use birth control. 

ECONOMIC ABUSE

  • Preventing the victim from getting an education, getting or keeping a job, or from having transportation. 
  • Taking the victim’s money. 
  • Not allowing the victim to have information about family assets or have access to family income. 
  • Making their partner beg for items such as food, personal hygiene items or other basic necessities. 

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE & CHILDREN

  • Preventing the victim from getting an education, getting or keeping a job, or from having transportation. 
  • Taking the victim’s money. 
  • Not allowing the victim to have information about family assets or have access to family income. 
  • Making their partner beg for items such as food, personal hygiene items or other basic necessities.